Hello Parents- 

Based on recent events at games, we need to address parent and spectator conduct at games. We've received feedback from our umpires that there has been poor conduct towards our umpires from spectators on more than one occasion. 

We're learning more every day about why sports, all sports, are experiencing problems getting umpires or officials into their programs. One of the main reasons is sportsmanship. Not just from the coaches or players, but parents too. 

A recent study conducted in 2019 by the National Association of Sports Officials found that of officials surveyed: 

- 13% have been assaulted. 

- 47% have feared for their life. 

- 57% have broken up fights. 

- 64% have ejected players, managers, coaches, or parents. 

- 80% of sports officials quit before their 3rd year. 

These are undoubtedly alarming numbers when you think about it. 

Like any other organization, our association is not immune to these problems. We do, however, take this very seriously. Our association has strict guidelines on treating situations like these when they do occur. As a board, we ensure those guidelines are enforced. 

So, remember: Umpires are human, too. The next time you're watching your child, family members, or friend playing at your local league. They will make mistakes, but a good umpire will do everything to get it right. They know that when there's a close play, they will make half the people happy and not the other half. In the end, they want to get the call right. 

When a parent starts to yell at umpires, we can always tell who their child is. They're usually the one with their head in their hands, embarrassed. It affects not only your child but his teammates too. It might make you feel better, but it stays with your child. 

Be respectful to umpires. Most umpires will talk to parents if when done respectfully. Presentation is everything. Talk to them after the game is over and not during the game. Talk to them as you would expect them to talk to you. There's a time and place to talk. 

At your next game and see umpires on the field, be glad they're there because that could be you on the field. Our association is fortunate that we can find umpires. Other leagues around the country aren't so lucky, and parents have to fill in. 

We desperately need new people to strap on the gear to ensure that games continue to be played. These new officials, young and old alike, should be afforded the respect you would expect from people at your job. Be familiar with the rules. When you better understand the rules, it makes the game you're watching more enjoyable. 

Lastly, have fun. Your child is playing for the game. Try not to do anything that might discourage them from continuing to play for many years. This is their time, be supportive and positive and help them build memories that will last a lifetime.